Sex Toy Robber was Fined

A man who followed a stranger into a hotel room and assaulted him before stealing a bag of sex toys has been fined $1100.

Andrew William Shade pleaded guilty in Darwin Magistrates Court yesterday to assault, threatening behaviour in public and stealing.

Prosecutor Simon Lee said Shade, who was 22 at the time, spoke to the male victim about "getting chicks" in the foyer of the Value Inn on Mitchell St in March, 2003, before following him up to his room and forcing his way in.

Mr Lee said Shade pushed the victim and stood in the way of him escaping until the victim jumped out the window, breaking his heel.

Shade took a bag of sex toys from the room, as well as the victim's wallet. Mr Lee said the wallet was recovered, but not the bag of toys or the cash inside the wallet.

Shade's lawyer Colin Baker said Shade could not remember much of the incident, or what it was about.

Shade had been on a fishing boat for three months and arrived in Darwin earlier on the day of the incident - he had been drinking heavily and had also taken drugs.

Mr Baker said Shade handed himself in to a security officer at the hotel, who called the police, and waited to be arrested.

But after he was released on bail, Shade fled to Queensland where he did a drug rehabilitation program.

Police officers told him there was a warrant out for his arrest when he applied for a liquor permit on Groote Eylandt recently, and he handed himself into the court.

Magistrate Daynor Trigg said the circumstances of the offence were "unusual".

"One can only speculate as to what the reason for your offending was," he said. "Clearly the victim was in fear. He didn't know what you were after, he didn't know if you were there to assault him, for sexual assault or for dishonesty offences."

Mr Trigg said imprisonment was not warranted over the charges, and fined Shade $1100 across the three charges.

How To Dress To Attract Men

First impressions are very significant as we often judge people instantly. Hence, it is all the more important that the first impression you give is a good one. Grooming yourself and dressing right will not only boost your confidence but also make you the centre of attraction. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

That is, if you think you are not attractive, you need not be disappointed. A few tips and a changeover are sure to capture attention and keep your man interested. Dressing attractively does not mean that you have to show your skin. It essentially means putting on clothes that suit your body type and enhance your personality. With the following tips, learn how you can dress up to attract men and bring yourself appealing to the eyes of the public especially men.

How To Dress To Attract Men

• Dress to look modern and stylish and feel self confident. Most people believe that dressing up in red attract more men as compared to other clothing colors. Dress up in shades of red and see if it works for you. Select the color of your dress first along with the fits and fabrics.
• Go to a different store for shopping clothes than your regular one. Try on clothes that look different from those that you usually wear. Be daring and take a risk as you may look beautiful in a style different from your normal one.
• Dressing yourself does not simply mean of putting something expensive on your body to attract a man. It is more about confidence, attitude and the ability to carry a dress.
• You can go in for a new hairstyle to modernize your style. A new hair color can also be wonderful, but be subtle with your color change so that your hair color looks natural and suits your skin tone.
• You can also consider buying a new make-up such as a slightly lighter or darker shade of foundation, powder, lipstick or eye shadow. Many departmental stores have samples of cosmetics that you can try before purchasing so; why not give it a try.
• Nicely shaped and polished nails attract men. Toenails look lovely painted in a dark shade of red, while for your fingernails, you can prefer a more natural look.
• Simplicity attracts more men. You can choose to be simple rather than putting too much color to your face. Avoid too much make-up in case you are allergic to the face powder or other cosmetics else you’ll just be scratching all over your face and have a bad impression on your man.
• Get a friend’s advice on how you can dress up well to attract men or anyone. A friend who is real would definitely help you with your personality.
• Be yourself. You do not have to show off what men want to see in you. Simply show what you are without hesitating and you are sure to find someone who’ll like your personality. Real relationships have a strong foundation and help build strong future relationships.

How to Make Yourself Sexually Appealing to Your Ex Lover

One of the main things that you must have if you want your ex to want you is that physical desire. In other words, your ex lover must still find you sexually appealing. This may sound superficial, but the truth is you must still be physically attractive to your ex lover if you want to raise the chances of them wanting you. So how do you make yourself sexually appealing to your ex lover?

First, you absolutely must dress in a way that emphasizes your good features. If you have a nice backside, wear pants that show it off! If your chest is very attractive, your shirt must emphasize this. If you have fabulous lips, make sure that they look soft, supple and kissable. If you have fabulous hair, make sure that it is neat and looks and smells great. You get the point here. Not only will you be more confident but your ex-lover and others will definitely take notice. Your attire should be casual, yet extremely sexy without showing off too much.

Next, you absolutely must smell great. If you still have a perfume or cologne that turned your ex on, be sure to wear it. Choose a sensual scent and do not overdo it. Give your ex a casual hug, and be sure to hug closely enough so that you leave some of your fabulous scent on him or her. Also, make sure that your ex can feel your body against his or her body, but leave it at that. Avoid hugging for too long, but do not make the hug too brief either. About 4-5 seconds should do.

When others are noticing you, notice them back, but just for a very brief moment. Your ex-lover must see that you have options and they must know that you are well aware of the fact that you have options. Notice your options, but still give your attention to your ex-lover. Your ex should not feel as if they are competing for your attention, but he or she must see that others definitely want your attention.

Finally, do not have sex with your ex. This will ruin everything. No matter how badly you may want to have sex, it is best to wait. Hold off as long as possible, especially if the breakup is recent. You want your ex to want to desire you sexually, but you definitely do not want to make it easy for them to have you sexually. Believe it or not, having sex too quickly will diminish their desire for you.