How to Make Yourself Sexually Appealing to Your Ex Lover

One of the main things that you must have if you want your ex to want you is that physical desire. In other words, your ex lover must still find you sexually appealing. This may sound superficial, but the truth is you must still be physically attractive to your ex lover if you want to raise the chances of them wanting you. So how do you make yourself sexually appealing to your ex lover?

First, you absolutely must dress in a way that emphasizes your good features. If you have a nice backside, wear pants that show it off! If your chest is very attractive, your shirt must emphasize this. If you have fabulous lips, make sure that they look soft, supple and kissable. If you have fabulous hair, make sure that it is neat and looks and smells great. You get the point here. Not only will you be more confident but your ex-lover and others will definitely take notice. Your attire should be casual, yet extremely sexy without showing off too much.

Next, you absolutely must smell great. If you still have a perfume or cologne that turned your ex on, be sure to wear it. Choose a sensual scent and do not overdo it. Give your ex a casual hug, and be sure to hug closely enough so that you leave some of your fabulous scent on him or her. Also, make sure that your ex can feel your body against his or her body, but leave it at that. Avoid hugging for too long, but do not make the hug too brief either. About 4-5 seconds should do.

When others are noticing you, notice them back, but just for a very brief moment. Your ex-lover must see that you have options and they must know that you are well aware of the fact that you have options. Notice your options, but still give your attention to your ex-lover. Your ex should not feel as if they are competing for your attention, but he or she must see that others definitely want your attention.

Finally, do not have sex with your ex. This will ruin everything. No matter how badly you may want to have sex, it is best to wait. Hold off as long as possible, especially if the breakup is recent. You want your ex to want to desire you sexually, but you definitely do not want to make it easy for them to have you sexually. Believe it or not, having sex too quickly will diminish their desire for you.