Why Single Women Like Married Men

What drives a confident, smart and good looking single woman to seek married men in order to have a relationship?

Many women, who are extremely tied up at work, feel that being with a married man gives her the chance to have a casual affair where too much is never expected out of her.

Some single men admit that they wear a wedding ring just to attract women. This gives them an excuse to not get emotionally involved and they can limit the time they spend with a woman on pretext that they need to return home to their family. Single women dating married men are becoming increasingly common in our society now.

The obvious question for here is "Why ca not such a beautiful and accomplished woman just date a single guy?" The answers to this question can be varied. But the most common answer invariably is that they do not want excess baggage at this point in their life.

For ambitious single women, dating married men means that they can choose when they meet their lovers, they never have to entertain them after hours if they do not want to and they never get forced in to a live-in relationship.

For women who love their privacy and independence, this is an easy option. They also lose no time in bringing to notice that they are not the ones committing adultery. However, they are an active party to committing adultery and whether they like it or not, they are helping in breaking a home.

More often than not, these are confident women, they provide for themselves and they do not feel the need for a husband or kids in order to get emotional satisfaction or feel that their life is complete. However, no human being likes to be alone and even they need company, a sense of belonging, which must be momentary.

This is the truth behind single women dating married men, they need company but on their terms, they need love but on their terms.

The next obvious question is 'How do they feel about breaking a marriage'. Most women claim, that if the marriage was happy, the man would never want to have an affair with another woman.

Most single women dating married men claim that they never tempted the man in to having an affair, but the marriage must already be broken in spirit if the man is considering cheating on his wife. This rids them of any guilt, as they do not feel they broke a marriage but just took advantage of a breaking one.

They feel they played no part in threatening the marriage and refuse to take any responsibility for it. However, the truth is, they just wish to not be tied to any reasons or responsibilities, they never want to be a part of a relationship that is meaningful so they wish to be connected to a man who feels lonely as well because of a unhappy or failed marriage and is desperately trying to hold the pieces together.

Such a man, will never lean on them for support but just use the affair as a way to cleanse the mind of unwanted tensions, even if momentarily.